Greece and family

It was my fourth visit in Ermioni, Greece. You never know what your life bring to you. When I came here fist time, I thought this is "first and last". I thought I will never return when I left here. Now I'm back here already fourth time, even with my PARENTS!



Yes, my parents joined our holiday in Ermioni all the way from Japan. Since there's no direct flight from Japan, it's a quite long journey including ship from Athens.



My parents were provided with the house of Fay, Odie's sister. It was amazingly beautiful and almost impossible holiday style for normal Japanese.. Having one whole house with Ocean view. The above photo is a view from the house.



My parents were totally surprised with this luxurious stay. Shame that we did only few days.. If they stay longer, my father wanted to cook fish in this beautiful kitchen.



"a holiday doing nothing" is also something uncommon for Japanese. Here in Ermioni, you spend time just swimming, reading, eating and sleeping. I also needed some time to get use to this style.





Also, it was second meeting of my parents and Odie's parents since our wedding. It was in a restaurant in Grand Hyatt Tokyo when we all dined together first time and was last time up to now. I've never imagined that second time will be in Ermioni.



A family gathering is nice. But I re-recognized the huge differences of both family. What we do, what we talk about, what is important,, everything is totally different. Since I was just trying to adapt to this new style, new culture, I never thought WHAT IS REALLY DIFFERENT. But having both family right in front of me, this difference became obvious.



For example, since I moved to Switzerland, I never enjoyed being forced to do sports such as swimming in cold water or ice skating. I didn't think why I don't feel comfortable about it but now I realized how unsporty family I am from. I never saw my mom in bathing suits for 10 years or more. Now in Ermioni, she was in her newly bought bathing suits and tried swimming in a sea after many many years. On the other hand, it is normal for Odie's family to swim every day. They can swim like kilo without wearing fin or snorkel. Godzilla, a father of Odie even dive in to water from head! Nobody from our family even thought about it.



In stead, my parents treasure "harmony" and enjoy eating time 100%. It is important to have 3 meals in a day and absolutely enjoy it. I also realized that during the meal, my family talk about what we eat. Normally, we say how good the food are (although sometime could be other way around) and 100% enjoy EATING. That's why we never have exciting, hot conversation during dining because this destroy the nice eating atmosphere. Odie's family is quite spontaneous about dining. They plan first what they do during the day and in between comes meal. That's why breakfast and lunch will become often together. My parents plan breakfast in morning in order to enjoy lunch as seperate meal. Also, Odie's family hardly make comments about food. "Delicious" is the pretty much only comment I hear and then they enjoy discussions about politics and economy. I never talked about these topics neither with my family nor friends.



Moreover, my parents and Odie's parents, the point of scolding children is different. My parents scolded me if I licked plate or drop food on the floor. But it seems like these are not a big deal for Odie's parents. In stead, taking something from other is not acceptable even between brother and sisters. I mean, something small for example a flower decorated on the table for each person. This flower belongs to only one person and the others are not allowed to take it.



I realized myself feeling comfortable in both style, enjoying more sports with Odie's family but still feel more comfortable for dining style of my parents.



Oh, one funny episode in Ermioni. My father really tried to take best out of it in Ermioni and he joined us swimming at least once in a day. And he managed this.



hunting sea urchin:) On this morning, he came swimming with us from early in the morning. The water is quite cool in morning but he wanted to enjoy last swimming here. But his interest seems to be always for food..



He also hunted large sea urchin, break it by stone.



and ate it!! He said "I should have bring soy sauce and wasabi!!":) My father didn't swim Kilo with Odie's family but he is tough in other way:)



Seeing difference is interesting. Every families are different but in our case, it stands out even more considering culture differences. But I'm thankful that both of our parents can speak Engligh (excluding my mom:) and exchange many minds each others. Maybe there will be some conflicts come up in future but as long as they can communicate in one language, they will understand each others and learn. I had a bit fear before this trip if my parents can adjust and enjoy this extraordinary European vacation or not and also if Odie's parents can understand that they don't swim like they do.



But it was not neccessary. My parents really had great time in Ermioni and was very thankful for kind arrangement of Odie and Odie's parents. I am also very much thankful to them that they let me invite my parents to holiday.



Sometime I was jealous to Odie that he can always be together with his parents.



But this time in Ermioni I was also able to have time with my parents. It was so nice that I could show them such a beautiful place, a place which I will visit many many years to come with Odie's family.